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Insights into the five basic marital needs that husbands and wives have to meet in order to build a fulfilling and irresistible relationship. It offers practical tips for both men and women to understand and cater to each other's emotional, sexual, conversational, financial, and familial needs.
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Any husband can make himself irresistible to his wife by learning to meet five basic marital needs:
A wife makes herself irresistible to her husband by learning to meet his five basic marital needs:
Cheat Sheet For Men What a woman likes and dislikes
Turn-Offs Lack of self-esteem Laziness Lack of humor Lack of confidence Lack of goals Lack of understanding Lack of tenderness Negativity Self-centeredness Extreme jealousy Insecurity Smothering Dependence Self-pity Lack of trust No ambition
Turn-Ons Confidence Sense of Humor Intelligence Sensitive Support Self-worth Goals Imagination Independence Desire Courage Compassion Decisiveness Sense of Integrity Dignity Spiritual Leadership
Anytime you deliberately turn off the TV while your favorite team or show is on, or decide to cancel a game of golf, or a hunting trip to spend time with your wife, it shows her that she is more important.
Making eye contact while she is speaking instead of continuing to watch the TV or computer, shows that she has your attention and that you are concerned.
Breaking the male habit of thinking that most of what a woman says is stupid or silly, will go a long way to ensuring in your wife's heart that you love her, and that she is competent.
Pray that you can become more sensitive to the emotional needs of your wife, and that compassion will grow in your heart.
The Wife's Playbook
1. Realize - Your husband is a man. Be glad for it, and do not try to make him less than one. Not all men are the rugged outdoor type, but they still desire a woman to see them as a man. Remember, God made us male and female. We are different. 2. Notice - Men want to please their wives. When the gutters are cleaned, the leak is fixed, the door knob is put back on, or the school project is finished, give him praise. Tell him how handy he is. This will build him up and make him eager to accomplish more.
3.Stop - Do not go over his head by calling your dad, brother, or anyone else to fix or build something without his approval. This type of action will crush his spirit. If it is not getting done as fast as you like, simply ask him if he thinks you should seek some help. Also, DO NOT volunteer him for things without his approval.
4.Quiet - When he has messed up or broken something, he already knows it. Do not compound it by telling him that he blew it or that he just cost the family more money.
5. Don't - Nagging will only get you both mad. Oh he may get up and do that project that you have complained about for 2 months, but he will not do it in the right spirit; and it will only serve to create space between you emotionally. 6. Understand - Men are very fragile. They like to be seen as tough and with all the answers; but they really operate under a lot of pressure. They have an idea in their head of what a man is to be, and often times they do not fulfill it. This causes a lot of anxiety. Faithfully praying that you and your husband will become what God has intended, will go a long way in making a happy home.