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Premarital Questionnaire | Masjid Ikhlas, Study notes of Nutrition

17. Have​​you​​ever​​gone​​to​​counseling​​for​​marriage​​or​​divorce?

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Premarital Questionnaire
Please
review
this
questionnaire
prior
to
your
Premarital
Counseling
Session
with
the
Imam.
Basic Information
1. How old are you?
2. Where were you born?
3. What did you study in college?
4. What is your occupation?
5. Why have you chosen me as your potential spouse?
Core Values
6. What is the role of a husband?
7. What is the role of a wife?
8. What are your expectations of marriage?
9. What are your goals in life? Long-term and short-term plans.
10. Identify three things that you want to accomplish in the new future
11. identify three things that you want to accomplish, long-term.
Previous Marriages
12. Have you ever been married before?
13. Are you married now?
14. Do you want to practice polygamy?
15. Have you ever been engaged? If so, how long ago?
16. Have you ever been divorced? If so, how long?
17. Have you ever gone to counseling for marriage or divorce?
Health
18. Define mental, verbal, emotional, and physical abuse.
19. What would you do if you felt that you had been abused?
20. Who would you call for assistance if you were being abused?
21. Do you suffer from any chronic disease or condition?
22. Are you willing to take a physical exam by a physician, before marriage?
23. What is your understanding of proper health and nutrition?
24. How do you support your own health and nutrition?
Raising Children
25. Do you support the idea of utilizing babysitters and maids?
26. Do you want to have children? If not, why?
27. To the best of your understanding, are you able to have children?
28. Do you want to have children in the first two years of marriage? If not, then when?
29. Do you believe in abortion in your family?
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Premarital Questionnaire

Please review this questionnaire prior to your Premarital Counseling Session with the Imam.

Basic Information

  1. How old are you?
  2. Where were you born?
  3. What did you study in college?
  4. What is your occupation?
  5. Why have you chosen me as your potential spouse?

Core Values

  1. What is the role of a husband?
  2. What is the role of a wife?
  3. What are your expectations of marriage?
  4. What are your goals in life? Long-term and short-term plans.
  5. Identify three things that you want to accomplish in the new future
  6. identify three things that you want to accomplish, long-term.

Previous Marriages

  1. Have you ever been married before?
  2. Are you married now?
  3. Do you want to practice polygamy?
  4. Have you ever been engaged? If so, how long ago?
  5. Have you ever been divorced? If so, how long?
  6. Have you ever gone to counseling for marriage or divorce?

Health

  1. Define mental, verbal, emotional, and physical abuse.
  2. What would you do if you felt that you had been abused?
  3. Who would you call for assistance if you were being abused?
  4. Do you suffer from any chronic disease or condition?
  5. Are you willing to take a physical exam by a physician, before marriage?
  6. What is your understanding of proper health and nutrition?
  7. How do you support your own health and nutrition?

Raising Children

  1. Do you support the idea of utilizing babysitters and maids?
  2. Do you want to have children? If not, why?
  3. To the best of your understanding, are you able to have children?
  4. Do you want to have children in the first two years of marriage? If not, then when?
  5. Do you believe in abortion in your family?
  1. What is the best method of raising children?
  2. What is the best method of disciplining children?
  3. How are you raised?
  4. How were you disciplined?
  5. Do you believe in spanking children? Under what circumstances?
  6. Do you believe in public schools for your children?
  7. Do you believe in Islamic schools for your children?
  8. Do you believe in homeschooling your children? If so, by whom?
  9. What type of relationships would your children have with non-Muslim classmates and friends?
  10. Would you send your children to visit their extended family if they lived in another state or country?
  11. Do you have children now?
  12. What is your relationship with your children now?
  13. What is your relationship with their parent now?
  14. What relationship do you expect your spouse to have with your children and their parent?
  15. What type of relationship do you want your children to have with all of their grandparents?
  16. If there are members of my family that are not Muslim, that are of a different culture or race, what type of relationship do you want to have with them?

Religious Relationship

  1. What is the role of religion in your life – now?
  2. Are you a spiritual person?
  3. What is your understanding of an Islamic marriage?
  4. What are you expecting of your spouse, religiously?
  5. What is your relationship between yourself and the Muslim community in your area?
  6. Are you volunteering in any Islamic activities?
  7. What can you offer your mate, spiritually?

Financial Relationship

  1. What is your definition of wealth?
  2. How do you spend your money?
  3. How do you save your money?
  4. Do you think that your use of money will change after marriage?
  5. Do you have any debt now? If so, how are you making progress to eliminate the debt?
  6. Do you use credit cards?
  7. Do you support the idea of taking loans to buy a home?
  8. What are you expecting from your spouse financially?
  9. What is your financial responsibility in the marriage?
  10. Do you support the idea of a working life?
  11. If so, how do you think a dual income family should manage funds?
  1. How do you make important and less important decisions in your life?
  2. Do you use foul language at home? In public? With your family?
  3. Do your friends use foul language?
  4. Does your family use foul language?
  5. How do you express anger?
  6. How do you expect your spouse to express anger?
  7. What do you do when you are angry?
  8. When do you think it is appropriate to initiate mediation in a marriage?
  9. When there is a dispute in your marriage, religious or not, how should the conflict be resolved?